Monday, March 21, 2016

Why people want to be alone?

When a person is lonely there may be lots of reasons. If the reasons are natural, like the person himself or herself has deliberately wanted to be a loner, then their perceptions and priorities of Life is different and all those people would be quite bold, very precise, know what they want and what they do not want. Nothing affects them externally and such people may not have any sentiments and will always talk and behave very practically, as a down-to-earth person. 

Now, coming to the other section of people who have become lonely due to circumstances and external factors, they all will be emotionally weak and they would always be looking for some sort of companionship to share their emotions or sentiments or problems. it do
es not mean that these kind of people will not be practical or they will not have any priorities or goals for Life. They will also be quite focussed on what they want and they will always enjoy being in a relationship with someone whom they consider to be good and genuine. If they are close to someone like this, they would feel that their confidence level is high and they will think that because of their relationship with that person, they are able to achieve lots of good things in Life and thereby their binding with that person is very strong.

Due to some reasons, if the above relationship breaks and they are forced to become a loner again, they will be very upset and perhaps they will be disturbed and disappointed. It will take sometime for them to come back to their normal and finally they will become normal and they will feel that they have gained lots of experience in Life and have learned lots of lessons too. Many times, these persons would come out of their loneliness on their own or after they find another soul mate.


LONELINESS IS TERRIBLE AND DIFFICULT TO GO THROUGH.

Infact, the Concept of IMPRISONMENT as Punishment for Criminals has emerged on the same lines, because LONELINESS is the biggest punishment that one can take and go through and that is why they are Jailed in a Cell where he or she is alone.

Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Instead...

When I’ll be dead
Your tears will flow…
But I won’t know
Cry for me now instead…

You will send
Flowers…
But I won’t see
Send for me now instead…

You will say words of
Praise…
But I won’t hear
Praise me now instead…

You will forget my
Faults…
But I won’t know
Forget them now instead…

You will miss me
Then…
But I won’t feel
Miss me now instead…

You will wish
You could have spent
More time with me

Spend  it now instead…

P.S : I got this beautiful sms today .